Teasing is one of the greatest seduction arts. It is a highly erotic—and sometimes sophisticated—game of giving and denying, often cruel but leaving your subjects pining for more. Reveal a glimpse of your sensuality and your passion and let their imagination build up their fantasies of and desires for you.
The bedroom is a prime ground for teasing. Your lover might assume you are ready to be taken and that you can’t wait any longer, but in order to draw it out a little more you must exercise some self-discipline and control. Pipedream has a few items to help you master this powerful skill.
Instead of jumping right to the “main course”, offer to give your partner a sensual massage using Body Heat, an edible, warming massage lotion (available in 10 flavors including cinnamon, mint, peaches n’ cream, and pina colada). Apply it anywhere you like, but you might want to steer clear of the popular destinations—remember, give a little but hold back a lot more and this can greatly increase desire.
If you are having difficulty keeping your lover from ravishing you (a common problem for masters of teasing), then you might want to restrain him or her with the Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Door Cuffs. After they are secured in place, you can tease them with a Feather Tickler or blindfold them…the rest is up to you!
Lingerie is a classic teasing instrument. For the ladies, The Bella Gown from the Fetish Fantasy Lingerie collection is sexy and romantic, yet its layered tier back and front covers just enough of the essentials until you are ready to show it all. As for the gentlemen, the See-Thru Sexy fishnet tank-and-brief set is a must-have for a teasing exercise: the thin tank is the only thing that separates your body from your partner, and the zippered brief provides instant access—only when you grant them permission. Robert Greene, the author of The Art of Seduction, writes that showing a glimpse of flesh can tease the imagination, “stimulating the desire not just for sex but for something greater: the chance to possess a fantasy figure.”
Lastly, teasing starts first and foremost in the mind. Toys and lingerie will help you with the final stages of teasing, but your words and body language are the main ingredients for setting your lover’s imagination on fire.
A little kiss here, an unexpected grope there, or a few open-ended words that can seem like promises for an evening of wild lovemaking—using all of these techniques and more will let your partner know the depths of your desires and the care with which you take in planting little seeds along the road to full-blown sexual bliss.
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