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Sex Education Sells! Sabrina Dropkick Talks Sexpert Life with XBIZ Magazine

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XBIZ did a freakin’ incredible special report on sex education this month, with articles covering the rising demand for sexual health information and the array of educational resources that are now available. There’s one article in particular that focuses on sex education that’s offered in the sex toy manufacturing industry, so of course my girl Ariana, XBIZ pleasure products editor, just had to ask for my input. ;)

For manufacturers of pleasure products, sex education is vital to business. Several companies have taken it upon themselves to guide consumers through sexual exploration by not just providing a wide range of tools but also the know-how to use them. 

Manufacturers such as CalExotics, Pipedream, Doc Johnson, and Topco have sexperts on staff to directly provide advice and information to consumers and retailers. 

“I primarily talk to customers through email and social media,” said Sabrina Dropkick, Pipedream’s sexpert and social media manager. “The variety of questions is pretty vast, though the most common are probably toy suggestions, penis enhancement, and first-time anal advice. My favorite inquiries come from people who want to better satisfy their partner or want to introduce something new to their routine — I just love introducing people to the infinite realm of pleasure that sex toys can provide.” 

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My “Pegging Manifesto” is probs my fave Pipedream blog that I’ve written. YOU GUISE, I JUST REALLY LOVE BUTT FUCKING BOYS, OKAY?!?!?!?

According to Dropkick, offering sex advice and handling Pipedream’s social media go hand in hand. 

“Since a majority of my work is done online, it offers people the safety of anonymity and relieves the anxiety typically induced by face-to-face conversation,” she said. “I also do a lot of blogging and we’re about to launch a new video series, and I think having these types of educational resources readily available is extremely valuable — it’s anticipating people’s needs and answering their questions before they even have to work up the courage to ask.”

Dropkick notes that the need for sex-ed is becoming more evident as it increasingly garners more attention from the media. 

“John Oliver’s ‘Last Week Tonight’ recently did a phenomenal story on the crisis of sex education in America (only 13 states require that sex education be scientifically accurate — um, what?!) Celebrities are publicly coming out of various closets, sparking plenty of much-needed conversation about gender and sexuality,” Dropkick said. 

Throwback to that time our Icicles were on John Oliver's "Last Week Tonight"

Throwback to that time our Icicles were on John Oliver’s “Last Week Tonight”

 ”And with the array of communities who gather online to share their experiences and network, there’s a place on the Internet for anyone to find the resources and relatability they need to feel more comfortable with and explore their particular sexuality. That’s what I think it’s really about — it’s less about making sex education ‘popular’ and more about relieving the taboo and shame associated with sex. Once we can achieve this, then sex education will become a routine occurrence. The more we talk about it, the more ‘normalized’ it becomes, and sharing our personal stories is especially effective because it brings a tangible life to the issues at hand.” 

So all of the gold stars to Ariana for writing a kick ass piece about some super important stuff, and for also having really, really, ridiculously good taste in quotes. ;) Check out the entire November XBIZ and the article below (you can catch magnified images here and here.) There a tons of other sweet ass Pipedream coverage from the issue as well, so why don’tcha just put down the gotdamn porno for once and beat your mental meat for a minute, eh?

REAL TALK! A Pegging Manifesto

I don’t really know how else to put it – pegging is the shit. For the n00bs who have no idea what I’m talking about – pegging is the term for when someone uses a strap-on to butt fuck someone else. Seriously! It’s probably, like, my number one favorite sex act ever. I just really love screwing with gender roles and there’s a certain dominance that overwhelms me when I’ve got a grizzly dude on their hands and knees. Plus, what better way to stick it to the patriarchy then to stick it in their ass?

Unfortunately, I had to learn my pegging etiquette the hard way (lol hard) by trial and error. If it’s your first time, keep these things in mind for the safest, most pleasurable experience.

Lube. Lube, lube, lube, lube, lube. Use lube, and use a lot of it. Butt holes don’t naturally lubricate the way our other orifices do, so you gotta help a brother out. Personally, I prefer silicone lube because it’s super-duper slick and a little lasts a looooong time, whereas water-based lubes dry up and must be continuously reapplied. Some people are divas and think silicone lube is annoying to clean up – and you know what I’ve got to say about that? Quit yer bitchin! A few extra minutes of cleanup is worth keeping that precious, uber-sensitive butt hole happy. There is one little problem with silicone lube, though – you can’t use it with silicone toys. But don’t you fret! If you’ve got a silicone cock, water-based lube is just fine, and will only ensure an even more wet and wild ride!

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Smooth, tapered, AND glow-in-the-dark?! YES PLEASE!!!!

If the person you’re pegging has little to no experience with anal – DO NOT DIVE IN DICK FIRST!!! Our butt holes actually need to be trained to maintain a certain elasticity that a good anal pounding requires. Before you even invest in a super dope harness and the big, glittery cock of your dreams – try some finger play with your partner first, to make sure they even like it. Once a finger becomes more and more comfortable, upgrade to a small toy, then gradually work your way up. Make sure the plugs and dildos you choose have a tapered tip to ease insertion and a base that’s wider than the toy’s widest point so it doesn’t get lost forever (or really, until an embarrassing hospital visit…) I suggest using smoooooooth, tapered toys with no drag for beginners solo anal use - glass, metal, and ceramic are perfect – and softer materials like silicone and PVC for strap-on use. Though hard materials slide the best, I don’t let other people use them on me because one wrong movement is just, like… oooouuuuuccccchhh!!!!!!

Now, if you’re gonna dive into the poop shoot, you’re gonna need to be prepared for the not-so mystery that lies inside. There’s just no way around it and no way to put it lightly – there’s poop up there. It’s just a biological fact. You can enema all you want, you can starve yourself all day (which I seriously don’t even recommend for any reason ever), but there’s still gonna be poop up there… AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. To the person being pegged – don’t you ever be ashamed of your bodily functions. To the person doing the pegging – don’t you ever shame someone for their bodily functions. If you can’t stomach the possibility of poo, then you have no business pegging.

A lot of cis straight dudes get super skeeved out when considering pegging, like they have to defend their heterosexuality. But, uh, guess what guys – every cis dude has a prostate, and every prostate feels AWESOME when you get at it. Period. It’s just, like, science. Also, FYI, your sexual identity is not defined by the sexual acts you perform or even the sex partner(s) you have – it’s whatever YOU identify as. And even if getting it up the butt did make you gay – so what? There’s nothing wrong with being gay anyway.

Bring Your Fetish Fantasy Series Harness Collection to Life!

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Bring your best-selling Fetish Fantasy Series wall to life with Pipedream’s new Promotional Torso Displays (PD4003-55). The latest addition to the manufacturer’s award-winning merchandising efforts is now available to all customers who purchase Fetish Fantasy Series Harnesses - at no additional cost!

The smooth, white torso proudly displays the Fetish Fantasy Series logo at the waistline, and features a sturdy metal hanger with plastic hook to easily hang this half torso on any display rack, peg, grid, or slat wall. You can also dress up your complimentary displays with other wearable Fetish Fantasy Series items, such as vibrating panties and strap-ons.

“Our new torso displays are a must-have for any retail environment,” explains Visual Merchandiser Briana Honz. “They do all the selling for you, allowing the customer to really see and feel these exquisite new fetish essentials.”

Customers are urged to contact their sells rep now while supplies last. Catalogs are available by request from your distributor. Online catalogs are available in multiple formats, including the Fetish Fantasy Series Harnesses interactive supplement. Brand and product videos are also available to download for in-store and online use at PDTV.

For media inquiries or for further information about Pipedream Products Inc., please contact Sabrina Dropkick via e-mail atsabrina@pipedreamproducts.com.

Pipedream Unleashes the Ultimate Strap-On Harness Collection!

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When you’re looking for the perfect strap-on harness to get the job done right, Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy Series harness collection offers something for everyone on any budget.

Designed by a woman with women in mind, Pipedream designer Liz Jones explains, “We’ve taken our best-selling harness designs, improved them with better, sturdier metal hardware and heavy-duty materials, and added three brand new high-end genuine leather styles.”

pdphoto_13922487692833With 12 unique styles to choose from including vibrating and remote control vibrating, this collection offers the perfect assortment of harnesses for beginners and strap-on aficionados alike.

Engineered for optimal fit and maximum comfort, all Fetish Fantasy Series harnesses come with three super-stretchy silicone O-Rings at 1.2-inches, 1.6-inches, and 2-inches to securely hold the dildo in place when the action heats up. Every harness features fully adjustable straps to accommodate a variety of body shapes and sizes, and are compatible with most flared base dildos. For premium performance, use with Fetish Fantasy Elite Suction-Cup silicone dildos, or Basix Suction-Cup PVC dildos.

Like all Pipedream brands, the harness collection features a 12-piece planogram that will be a welcome profit-center to any retail environment. The uniform, space-saving packaging features beautiful silver foiling and clearly showcases the unique elements of each harness. The easy-to-use planogram includes complimentary signage, giving stores everything they need to effectively merchandise the brand and create stunning visual displays.

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Customers are urged to place their orders now while supplies last. Catalogs are available by request from your distributor, and online catalogs are available in multiple formats, including an interactive supplement for the harness collection. Product videos are also available to download for in-store and online use at PDTV.

For media inquiries or for further information about Pipedream Products Inc., please contact Sabrina Dropkick via email at sabrina@pipedreamproducts.com.

Throwback Thursday: Montana Rae (NSFW)

Though Montana Rae’s performance career was short-lived, this 29-year-old Kansas beauty left us with 22 jerk-worthy titles from the likes of Hustler and Pink Visual in the span of just four years.

We had the pleasure of shooting Montana at the height of her career in 2005 for our Fetish Fantasy Series Beginner’s Strap-On For Him and Vibrating Strap-On Set. Montana herself was super psyched about these toys, impressed by the less threatening, slim jelly dildo of the Beginner’s Strap-On for Him — which is actually perfectly sized for ANY person’s first anal encounter!

Now to reminisce about Montana’s supermodel bod and perfect pout in these steamy extras and behind-the-scene photos!

For more information contact Sexpert Sabrina Dropkick at sabrina@pipedreamproducts.com. You can also anonymously inquire with the Sexperts here!

Extreme Strap-Ons For Extreme Fantasies! 17 New Silicone Strap-Ons Now Shipping

Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy Series is the number one selling bondage line in the world, and our two-year old Fetish Fantasy Extreme line has seen equally impressive results. The award-winning Elite Silicone has now been introduced to this collection, featuring 17 new high performance strap-ons made to withstand even the most extreme fetish play.

“Requests came pouring in for more heavy-duty products, especially from women,” explained Rob Phaneuf, VP of Product Development. “So we combined our best-selling designs with the finest materials and strongest construction to create high-quality strap-ons with optimal comfort at an affordable price.”

Made from the same premium silicone as our Fetish Fantasy Elite collection, new Extreme styles range from solid G-spot stimulators to hollow strap-ons sturdy enough for anyone to use. Each new body-safe dildo is complete with an ultra strong suction-cup base suitable for strap-on use, as well as wall-banging fun. The heavy-duty vinyl harnesses feature adjustable leg and waist straps, three silicone O-rings, and exclusive clip-on holsters for the waterproof remotes of vibrating strap-ons.

“The packaging is just as hardcore as the product design,” said Visual Merchandiser Briana Honz. “The risque girl/girl imagery will appeal to a different market in addition to fetish-aficionados. When arranged with the unique Fetish Fantasy Extreme Planogram, these eye-catching boxes provide a welcome profit center to any retail environment.”

For customers who haven’t already received one, the 2013 Fetish Fantasy Extreme catalog is available in multiple formats, including a brand new interactive catalog which can be viewed here.

For media inquiries or for further information about Pipedream Products Inc., please contact Sabrina Dropkick at sabrina@pipedreamproducts.com.

College of Copulation: Gender and Sexuality Vocab, Plus Queer Porn and Sex Education Resources!

This queerdo’s favorite ladyboner! Basix Rubber Works 8″ Suction Cup Dong

Though I’m a very out and proud queer woman now, my journey through the boundaries and discovery of my own gender and sexuality wasn’t always easy. Even after finally growing secure with my identity, I still come across new definitions and theories, and keeping track of the somewhat evolving “alphabet soup” of sexuality can be arduous. Mmm, soup. Is it lunch yet? Okay, my stomach says we’re starting here:

LGBTQIA: Known as “The Alphabet Soup” — Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender/Transsexual/Trans*, Queer or Questioning, Intersex, Asexual or Ally. I’ll define these to my best ability in just a minute.

Gender versus Sex: Your sex (genitals) does not determine your gender identity. Gender identity is how a person experiences their own gender. Gender expression refers to the way one outwardly presents themselves, be it masculine, feminine, or otherwise.

D.C.’s Transgender and Gender Identity Respect Campaign is the first US governmentally-funded ad campaign to address trans/genderqueer discrimination.

Transgender versus Transsexual versus Transvestite: A transgender person has a gender identity that differs from their gender assigned at birth. A transsexual person has a gender identity that differs from their sex assigned at birth. Some people may interpret transsexual to mean a person who has undergone gender reassignment surgery. A person does not need to have surgery to identify as trans. In fact, some people prefer just top, just bottom, or no surgery at all. It’s pretty offensive to ask someone what genitals they have and if they plan for surgery. The words “transvestite” and “tranny” are also pretty offensive, so you should probably refrain from using them. Ever.

Ally: Someone who does not identify as LGBTQI but is an advocate for gender and sexual equality.

Androgyny: When a person’s gender expression does not strictly abide by traditional “masculine” and “feminine” expressions, and may combine the two.

Asexual: Someone who doesn’t regularly experience sexual attraction.

Bisexual: A person who is attracted to both sexes as defined by the gender binary.

Cisgender: A person whose birth-assigned sex and gender identity match i.e. a person who is born with a vagina, is assigned the female sex at birth, and identifies/expresses themselves as such.

Feminism: Complete equality for all genders and sexes.

Thigh Strap-Ons are super popular among queer kinksters.

Gay: A person who is attracted to those of the same gender or sex as themselves, both romantically and sexually. Usually used to refer to men.

Genderqueer: A person whose gender identity and expression breaks the boundaries of societal expectations for their sex.

Intersex: A person whose sex may feature attributes of both the male and female sex organs.

Lesbian: A woman who is attracted to women, both romantically and sexually.

Pansexual: Someone who has no restrictions on what gender or sexes they are romantically and sexually attracted to.

Preferred pronoun: The terms a person prefers when being referred to as other than their name, i.e. her/she, him/her, them/they, ze, hir, etc. If you’re ever unsure of what pronoun to use for someone, simply ask. It’s better to admit your ignorance than to offend someone by mis-gendering them.

Queer: Frequently used as an umbrella term for anyone who falls outside of heteronormative genders, sexes, and sexual preferences.

Being a young, clueless queer kid was hard enough when just trying to gain a solid grasp of the vast range of gender and sex identities and sexual preferences in order to apply it to myself. Once I started exploring my body and watching porn, I’d become super frustrated when mainstream sites just didn’t do it for me. Luckily there’s an evolving presence and acceptance of queer-identified people, therefore more and more queer porn! Click “Read More” below for some queer porn, toy, and sex education resources.

If you have any questions about gender, sex, and sexual identity, feel free to email Sexpert Sabrina Dropkick at Sabrina@PipedreamProducts.com, or anonymously inquire with the Sexperts here!

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The Basix Bakery: How Dicks Are Made

Each piece from Basix Rubber Works is “baked” and inspected by hand right here at Pipedream Headquarters in Chatsworth, CA.

We all know how babies are made, but what about dicks? Well, when rubber and metal love each other very much…

Okay, so there are no feelings involved when it comes to inanimate objects, but things certainly heat up! In fact, it takes almost 300° for our American-made cocks to cook. But before they reach the oven, our latex- and phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, body-safe PVC rubber must be mixed, then poured into one of over 30 styles of phallic molds. Once “baked”, they’re inspected for imperfections and hand altered accordingly. Check out the gallery below to get up-close and personal with our Basix Bakery, housed right here at Pipedream Headquarters in Chatsworth, CA.

I love this line because most of the dongs feature a suction cup base, making wallbanging an absolute necessity! The waterproof design lets you turn shower time into pleasure time, though the suction cups will stick to most other floors and walls as well. They’re perfect for use with a harness too, since the suction cup will keep your strap-on snug in its place.

(Above) Nothing goes to waste! We recycle all unused materials from altered dongs. (Below) Fresh from the oven, our His and Her G-Spot is ready for inspection.

When I’m the one doing the pounding, our purple 10” Dong with Suction Cup is my number one erection selection. The insertable length of almost 9” with its widest point of 4” makes it perfect for this size queen. As a fabulous femme, I prefer my peckers not so natural, so the see-through purple shaft makes this one of my prettiest.

Our His and Her G-Spot is exactly what you need when exploring your hidden pleasure points. This is a typical suggestion for those who are new to anal. It’s small, smooth, and tapered – everything needed for easy insertion, with tons of Moist lubricant, of course! We suggest silicone lube because it won’t dry up as quickly as water-based lubes do. Less application means less interruptions and your bottle will last a hell of a lot longer.

For more information about Basix Rubber Works, hit up Sexpert Sabrina Dropkick at Sabrina@PipedreamProducts.com, or anonymously inquire with the Sexperts here!

Ask and Ye Shall Receive… London Andrews’ Boobs!

After posting a PG-13 shot of London Andrews rockin’ our Fetish Fantasy Series Plus Size Crotchless Corset Strap-On, a fan wondered why we would shoot something so risqué without showing a little boob! Unfortunately, Facebook isn’t a fan of boobs and will ban you if you don’t follow their rules and regulations. Well, thank Goddess for the rest of the interwebs! Check out some of our favorite behind-the-scenes photos from our super-hot shoot with London… and her boobs!

New Ways to Ride: Reinventing the Strap-On

Cameron Dee and Hannah Reilly loved our new Fetish Fantasy Extreme 8″ Vibrating Silicone Ribbed Strap-On!

I love ladies and I love dicks, so you can probably imagine how I feel when ladies and dicks are combined. Strap-on sex is one of my favorite ways to fuck (thought not necessarily reserved just for the ladies!) I love that it allows you to choose from the plethora of types of dongs that you can be fucked with. Even more, I love being able to experience a role in sex outside of the boundaries of my cis-gendered body.

The range of strap-on accessories is mind blowing, and we all know Pipedream is no stranger to innovation. We’re pushing the boundaries of strap-on sex and re-thinking the ways you pound your partner with passion! Here are some of the new strap-ons that have my ladyparts aching with anticipation.

You’ll be bobbing for orgasms with our trio of Silicone Face Fucker Gags! These 2-in-1 gags have something for the both of you – a smooth, round gag to shut your subject up, and a stiff dong, butt plug, or anal beads that turns them into a real-life fuck toy! If your sub needs to be further stuffed for silencing, the Elite Silicone dongs double as a reversible gag.

We’re redefining oral with our trio of Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone Face Fucker Gags!

I’m really excited about our Thigh-High Strap-On because of all the freedom it gives the wearer. The thigh is strong enough not to tire while your partner gives you an X-rated lap dance, and it frees up your cum zones so you can get off while you enjoy the show! The 7” dong features a suction-cup base and can be removed from the harness for a good, ol’ fashioned wall banging. The elastic harness lets most sizes help keep everything in place when the action heats up, and it’s light enough to forget it’s even there!

There are a few double-sided, harness-free strap-ons out there that just don’t jive with my grind. Bulbous penetrators on the wearer’s end never feel quite right to me, and it can be hard to keep inside if you’re not caught up with your keggles and Ben-Wa balls. Never fear, because Pipedream is here and we’re on everyone’s side for pleasure! With our new Vibrating Double Delight, you can fill yourself up just as much as your partner! Both dongs will send a buzz of excitement up your pleasure parts, and each dong has their own controls so you’re both in control of the power.

Fiending for more about strap-ons? Hit up Sexpert Sabrina Dropkick at sabrina@pipedreamproducts.com. You can also anonymously inquire with the Sexperts here.