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REAL TALK! A Pegging Manifesto

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I don’t really know how else to put it – pegging is the shit. (For the n00bs who have no idea what I’m talking about – pegging is when a girl bangs a guy in the butt.) Seriously! It’s probably, like, my number one favorite sex act ever. I just really love screwing with gender roles and there’s a certain dominance that overwhelms me when I’ve got a grizzly dude on their hands and knees. Plus, what better way to stick it to the patriarchy then to stick it in their ass?

Unfortunately, I had to learn my pegging etiquette the hard way (lol hard) by trial and error. If it’s your first time, keep these things in mind for the safest, most pleasurable experience.

Lube. Lube, lube, lube, lube, lube. Use lube, and use a lot of it. Butt holes don’t naturally lubricate the way our other orifices do, so you gotta help a brother out. Personally, I prefer silicone lube because it’s super-duper slick and a little lasts a looooong time, whereas water-based lubes dry up and must be continuously reapplied. Some people are divas and think silicone lube is annoying to clean up – and you know what I’ve got to say about that? Quit yer bitchin! A few extra minutes of cleanup is worth keeping that precious, uber-sensitive butt hole happy. There is one little problem with silicone lube, though – you can’t use it with silicone toys. But don’t you fret! If you’ve got a silicone cock, water-based lube is just fine, and will only ensure an even more wet and wild ride!

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Smooth, tapered, AND glow-in-the-dark?! YES PLEASE!!!!

If the person you’re pegging has little to no experience with anal – DO NOT DIVE IN DICK FIRST!!! Our butt holes actually need to be trained to maintain a certain elasticity that a good anal pounding requires. Before you even invest in a super dope harness and the big, glittery cock of your dreams – try some finger play with your partner first, to make sure they even like it. Once a finger becomes more and more comfortable, upgrade to a small toy, then gradually work your way up. Make sure the plugs and dildos you choose have a tapered tip to ease insertion and a base that’s wider than the toy’s widest point so it doesn’t get lost forever (or really, until an embarrassing hospital visit…) I suggest using smoooooooth, tapered toys with no drag for beginners – glass, metal, and ceramic are perfect – and softer materials like silicone and PVC for strap-on use. Though hard materials slide the best, I don’t let other people use them on me because one wrong movement is just, like… oooouuuuuccccchhh!!!!!!

Now, if you’re gonna dive into the poop shoot, you’re gonna need to be prepared for the not-so mystery that lies inside. There’s just no way around it and no way to put it lightly – there’s poop up there. It’s just a biological fact. You can enema all you want, you can starve yourself all day (which I seriously don’t even recommend for any reason ever), but there’s still gonna be poop up there… AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. To the person being pegged – don’t you ever be ashamed of your bodily functions. To the person doing the pegging – don’t you ever shame someone for their bodily functions. If you can’t stomach the possibility of poo, then you have no business pegging.

A lot of cis straight dudes get super skeeved out when considering pegging, like they have to defend their heterosexuality. But, uh, guess what guys – every cis dude has a prostate, and every prostate feels AWESOME when you get at it. Period. It’s just, like, science. Also, FYI, your sexual identity is not defined by the sexual acts you perform or even the sex partner(s) you have – it’s whatever YOU identify as. And even if getting it up the butt did make you gay – so what? There’s nothing wrong with being gay anyway.

Pegging: The Pleasure Sensation Sweeping a Nation


Have you heard about the latest pleasure sensation that is sweeping the nation? It’s called pegging and since August is “National Anal Sex Month”, what better time than to give your secondary entrance a try?

Men are no strangers to anal sex. Some have been known to beg, barter and bribe in exchange for some time in the back door. But there is a myth that claims if you are a man on the receiving end of anal sex, you are gay. This could not be further from the truth.

Enjoying some prostate stimulation or a good pegging from your special lady friend doesn’t make you gay. There are many gay men who do not enjoy–or even pratice–anal penetration, but that doesn’t make them attracted to women.

So now that you don’t have to worry about questioning your sexuality just because you want a more powerful orgasm, let’s talk about why it feels so good, as well as suggestions for some Pipedream items that will make backdoor play even better!

The anal canal is rich with nerve endings, which makes anal sex gratifying for both sexes. Men ‘on the bottom’ of the pegging order have an added bonus: anal penetration stimulates the prostate, one of the most sensitive spots in the male body. Think of it as your male G-spot – or P-spot if you will.

If you’ve never explored your anal region before, we recommend you begin by using your fingers and try some items geared toward the P-spot beginner.

Once you’re a little more familiar with your prostate–where it is and how to stimulate it– you’re ready to try pegging. But where do you start?

Thankfully, Pipedream has a wide variety of strap-ons to appeal to every taste and tightness level, ranging from small for the first-timer, to larger 10″ and beyond for more advanced players.

Entry-level receivers need to look no further than our Beginner’s Strap-on for Him. It features a non-intimidating slim dildo that curves slightly, making it a cinch to hit the prostate just right.

If you are looking for a harness that can fit those of us with more-to-love, or is more comfortable in general, you have to try our Fetish Fantasy Elite Universal Breathable Harness. Made of 90% polyester and 10% spandex, making it ultra stretchy and comfortable for a wide range of body types.

Ladies, if you would like to take “ass authority” to a whole new level, you can’t go wrong with the soon-to-be-released Strap-On Mistress costume from our Fetish Fantasy Lingerie Collection. It comes with everything you need for a night of domination over your man’s rear meat: a sexy crotchless corset strap-on with garter straps, studded mask, stockings, leather flogger, a striking black dildo that will reign supreme over his retral realm. It also comes with 3 differently sized silicone rings that you can switch out.

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College of Copulation: ABCs of Anal Sex

Sabrina I Love AnalIt makes my pervy little heart swell with ecstasy to see that the anal sex taboo is beginning to ease. Every so often, though, my ladyboner is totally inverted by stories of first-time anal goers with sad butts because they went too big, too hard, too fast. Sure, the whole “learn by doing” thing usually works like a charm – but most people just cannot immediately go balls deeps into their butt. So please, keep your pants on for just another few minutes and get yourself anal-sex-educated!

Anal training: Not only do you gotta educate yo’ noggin, but your butt hole’s got some work to do too. See, the reason why anal sex usually hurts is ‘cause your butt hole is tight as shit (no pun intended… okay maybe a little…) Vaginal canals are naturally malleable, whereas butt holes need some assistance. Before you dive into that hardcore anal pounding, you’re gonna have to start small and slow. There are actually anal training kits that consist of a bunch of plugs that gradually increase in size to help your butt hole slowly and comfortably stretch and maintain elasticity. I suggest wearing a plug at least once a day, during sex or even during your chores, and level-up your size week by week. Never force anything in, though. If, even with lube, it hurts too much – STOOOPPPP!!!!!

Our AFC silicone plugs make the perfect anal training kit.

Our AFC silicone plugs make the perfect anal training kit.

Beads: One of the most common anal toys, most people dig anal beads ’cause of the popping sensation they offer when you shove ‘em in and yank ‘em out. I definitely suggest these for more experienced anal players – if your butt hole isn’t acquainted well enough (i.e. you haven’t done your anal training), then you definitely risk tearing with this type of play. Ouch. Yeah, I don’t think you need the details about this one – just trust me, a broken butt hole sucks.

Double Penetration: Usually abbreviated to DP, it’s when someone is penetrated in both their vag and butt holes simultaneously. If there’s two dicks/dildos in one butt hole, it’s considered Double Anal (DA).

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This thin, tapered dildo is perfect for first-time pegging.

Lube: Okay, I know you know what lube is, duh. But I just had to include it because it’s like, the most important aspect of anal sex, next to anal training, of course. Your butt doesn’t naturally lubricate like a vag does, and we all know that too much dry friction during sex is, like, really not fun. To ease insertion and penetration, silicone lube is where it’s at. It’s super-duper slick and doesn’t dry up like water-based lubes, so your sack sesh won’t be interrupted for multiple reapplications. Just remember – you can never, ever, everrrrr use silicone lube with silicone toys because, long story short, silicone molecules play well with others but not with themselves. Translation: when two silicone items make contact, the materials kinda meld together and damage the toy(s).

Pegging: My all-time favorite kind of sex – out of the entire encyclopedia of awesome things that you can do with your genitals – pegging is typically defined as a cisgendered woman who fucks a cisgendered man in the butt with a strap-on. If you don’t know what cisgendered means, then check out this earlier College of Copulation of gender and sexuality vocab.

Plug: Probably the most common toy used for anal. I suggest using plugs for your anal training because (most of the time) they can sit comfortably in your hole and between your cheeks no matter how long the duration of play or wear. I really love glass plugs because they’re soooo smooooooth and usually ease in pretty well – plus the safety benefits and easy cleaning of a nonporous material.

P-Spot: The prostate gland is the thing that makes anal sex super ridiculously good for dick-wielding individuals. Think of it like the G-Spot of the vagina.

EXTRA CREDIT!!! Here are some diagrams of butts because education!

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Choosing the Perfect Strap-On

pd4428-23_03Here are my top three favorite things ever:

  1. Kittens
    Roller derby
    Pegging

Seriously. If you’re lucky enough to wield a vagina, I urge you to get up right this second – don’t even finish this sentence, just go to your local adult shop right now, pick out the prettiest penis in the place, and pounce the first consensual hole you can find. I!! Said!!! Now!!!!!!!!

Wearing a ween for the first time is such an incredible experience, there are very few words to describe it. I was so excited my first time, I totally forgot about my anxiously anticipating lover. Instead, I was just like, there is a thing hanging off of my body! And I can wiggle and flop it around! I can even hit things with it! Oh, let me hit this wall. And this doorway. And this couch. And your forehead. Oh hello, little meow meow, I guess you could even swat at it too.

But before you can cock slap all of the things, you’re gonna need a good, sturdy harness. No matter how pretty your peen – if your harness sucks more dicks than you do, then there will be NO FUN to be had.

There are plenty of harness styles to accommodate body sizes, gender preferences, and comfort. Here are a few of my favs.

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All you really need to keep your junk in place is the following: 1) Interchangeable O-rings in a few different sizes so you can attach any size cock. Stretchy O-rings are, in my opinion, the easiest to deal with. 2) The material between the dildo’s base and your skin – though you probably want it to be pretty small so it doesn’t feel super invasive, you do want it to be wide enough to shield you from the largest possible dick-base. So, when you’re choosing a harness, keep your and your partner(s) preferred cock sizes in mind. 3) Completely adjustable waist and thigh straps. Personally, I just feel like this type of set-up offers the ultimate support. And some of us may share our harness with a variety of partners, so offering as much adjustment as possible is going to ensure that it will fit anyone. Harnesses like our Stay-Put Harness fit this bill to a T. No bells and whistles, no arduous loops, buckles, and straps – just everything you need for strap-on success.

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A lot of my friends dig boxer-brief or panty-style harnesses because they’re just sooo super comfortable. Some people argue that they’re the least invasive type of harness because we’re already accustomed to the fit.  They’re usually made with cotton, spandex, or polyester and a super-stretchy elastic waistband.  Our Universal Breathable Harness is popular as shit for these very reasons. The only downside, though, is that the O-ring is typically sewn in to the harness, limiting your pick o’ dick.

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I am a huge fan of gender play, so a gorgeous babe with voluptuous curves complimented by a big, shiny purple dick is enough to instantly unleash my floodgates. We can’t be stingy with the pleasure, though. Vibrating harnesses ensure that everyone involved gets off. You should probably be very particular with these types of harnesses. Everybody’s bodies are different – some people’s clits are deeper than others, or the placement of the bullet might be just a little too high. Most stores aren’t into trying things on, but you could, at the very least, probably hold it up against your clothed groin and guesstimate whether a particular clit stimulator is properly placed for you. Many times it’s a simple square pocket on the underside of the harness that can be easily MacGyvered for custom placement.

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Keep this check list in mind when choosing your new ween:

  1. Choose a size based on your partner’s preference, not your own.
  2. For anal, choose a tapered, smooooooooth dildo. (And use a fuck ton of lube!)
  3. The base should be flared and sturdy. Suction cups usually work, but may be floppier. This is not necessarily a bad thing for those of us who are easily amused.
  4. If you will be using this dick with multiple partners, I suggest you stick with nonporous materials like silicone to ensure you’re not passing on anyone’s potentially gross shit.
  5. If you will be using this dick with multiple partners, but your budget only allows for rubber or PVC dicks – clean the dildo after and before each use, and use a condom. You should be tested regularly and expect the same of your partner(s).
  6. I’m totally obsessed with alternative materials like glass and ceramic, but I’ve never had success using these with partners. These materials are just so hard and blunt that they must be maneuvered ever so particularly – in ways that only you can control.
  7. Hard dildos could potentially hurt your partner if you’re pounding them and miss. (Ooowwwwwww!!!!!!!!)

Get Stuffed!: Tips For Tipping Your Mate From Behind

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We’ll ease your anal anxiety in no time!

Traditionally, we express our Thanksgiving gratitude by shoving mounds of turkey and pie down each other’s throats. When contemplating my last Thanksgiving, though, I recalled not the tasty meal prepared by my best friends, but the stuffing that took place following our meal. Thanksgiving of 2011 was both an eye and ass opening evening for me. It was the first night I successfully and enjoyably took a pegging, so I’d like to take this opportunity to officially redefine Thanksgiving. As a life-long fat kid I am first to enthusiastically partake in any feast, but I think it’s important to satisfy our sexual hungers as well. So this Thanksgiving, why not give thanks to your loved ones with a different kind of stuffing — in the butt!

I’d been inherently against anal sex for a long time due, unfortunately, to partners who’d gone about it the wrong way. My number one rule for any type of sex is to be 100% certain that this is an entirely consensual act. If you have to really beg and persuade your partner to do it, they’re probably going to give in half-heartedly, tainting the experience for the both of you. If your partner isn’t into it, especially a partner on the bottom, they’re not going to be as comfortable and relaxed as one needs to be during a first-time pegging. And when it comes down to it, it’s just not fair to pressure your partner into anything — ever. Instead, try talking about it when you’re not in the midst of intimacy. Express your anal interests while clothed. Do some research on how to ensure that it’s an enjoyable experience for the both of you. Don’t just beg and plead. Show your partner that you care about their experience just as much, if not more, than you’re concerned about your own.

Our chocolatey Real Feel No. 9 is a perfect post-turkey dessert!

The second most important aspect of anal sex is lube. Use it. Use a LOT of it. Seriously, you can never, ever, ever use too much lube when preparing for rear entry. Our Silicone Moist lubricant is your best bet, as silicone lube won’t dry out, maintaining slick and easy entry through the entirety of your playtime. Never combine silicone lube with a silicone toy, though. The silicone molecules can bond together and create holes in the toy, which promotes the growth and spread of bacteria, making it impossible to sterilize. So if you prefer a condom-less silicone toy, our water-based Moist lubricant will suffice, though you may find yourself re-applying more frequently.

Avoid using numbing ointments when diving into your behind. Yes, anal can hurt, but that’s usually only because you’re rushing into it! Pain is your body’s way of letting you know that something isn’t right. If you numb the area you run the risk of being completely unaware in the event that something goes wrong. You really don’t want to numb yourself in order to take a pounding because as a beginner with absolutely no anal experience, anal tearing is a distinct possibility if you rush into rough anal sex. Anal rips can heighten the risk of STIs, as well as just being generally painful as hell! Be nice to your butthole and ease into it, because if it’s your first time, you need to gradually work up to a hardcore anal pounding no matter how much you may crave it.

It’s best to experiment with smaller probes before jumping into rough penetration. Your ass hole really is elastic, but it needs a bit of guidance to reach easy elasticity. Start with a finger. Massage the opening (with lube!) to really relax yourself and the area before slowly prodding it (with more lube!), then eventually slipping the entire finger in (where’s that lube at?!). Once you’re anally acclimated to the girth of a finger, try some toys.

Heat things up on this chilly Thanksgiving night by placing our Icicles No. 2 in a warm bowl of water prior to playtime!

Patience is key in gradually stretching your anus in preparation for a nice, hard pounding. Start with our Basix Mini Butt Plug. It’s only 2¾ inches in girth at its widest point. Once you’ve mastered the Mini, move on to a slightly larger toy like the Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibrating 4½” Dildo. This luxurious, smooth silicone-based toy should slide in with ease (with lube, yes, more lube!). You can stick it on the wall for hands-free penetration while tickling your tush with seven vibration patterns.

The Icicles No. 2 is also a great, gradual stretcher as its smallest bulge has a girth of only 4 centimeters. Glass toys are a ton of fun for temperature play, too. Send shivers up your rump by freezing your Icicle, or heat up those buns by placing the toy in a bowl of warm water prior to use.

High five! You’re no longer an anal amateur, and can graduate to the real stuffing! Those with two holes can enjoy more wall-bangin’ satisfaction with the Waterproof Wall Bangers Double Penetrator. Or, in preparation for penetration with a penile partner, try one of our Real Feel Lifelike Toyz. The squishy Fanta-Flesh material mimics the softness of real skin, while remaining stiff enough to penetrate that tough heinie hole. But beware — these toys feel so real, you might just lose your appetite for the real thing!

Learn more about pegging for men here, and click here for some anal prepping suggestions. You can always anonymously inquire with the Sexperts, or email me directly at Sabrina@PipedreamProducts.com.

Let The People Come!: Be Sure Your Partner’s Not Faking It

According to a UK study*, 80% of women fake their orgasms. A smaller fraction — 31% — of men fake it too! Uneven cum-tallies are sure to fuel, if not spark, an argument, so why not ignite your sex life instead of a fight! Here are some of our favorite ways to ensure that your partner’s vulva (or fun valve!) va-va-vooms to ecstasy.

Sometimes foreplay is more important than the sex itself. It takes more than just a stick and poke to get someone all riled up, so why not try a long, wet, sultry massage to calm them down and loosen them up. With our Liquid Love warming-and-flavored massage lotion, you can use your fingers and tongue to rub those knots and kinks away. But please don’t mistake this lotion for lube — sugar-infused oils, lotions, and lubes are never to be used internally.

Teasing is a foolproof method for turning anyone on. Learn more about this particular art of seduction here

A majority of the vag-wielding population cannot cum from penetration alone, and some can only reach a thrilling, genuine climax with clitoral stimulation. First and foremost — if you can’t find the clit, just ask! There’s nothing more awkward than combating a lost soldier. Communication is key to steamy, passionate sex, so if dirty talk feels a bit awkward, try our Glow In The Dark Erotic Dice or, for a kinkier convo, our Fetish Fantasy Series Fantasy Dice. It’s always easier to battle anxiety or embarrassment with a little guidance, so let these dice lead the way and you’ll be whispering your own desires and demands in no time!

Don’t limit your toys to solo playtime. Once you’ve conquered their fun buttons, incorporate a breathtaking buzz while simultaneously penetrating. Our Wanachi massagers are a perfect fit, with an intense range of vibrations and a large handle that remains easy to grip even during the most rigorous romp. Try its waterproof sister for steamy shower fun, or prepare for some naughty public pleasure by keeping a Mini Wanachi by your side. Our high-end silicone WOW! No. 4 is another elegant option, featuring luxurious lines of vibes that are sure to tickle and titillate your partner to completion!

Be sure not to ignore the back door, either! The anus has a relatively high concentration of nerve endings, so even a massage without anal penetration can enhance pleasure and keep them coming all night long!

For more tips on how to tip your mate’s orgasm overboard, email our in-house Sexpert directly at Sabrina@PipedreamProducts.com, or submit an anonymous question to our Sexpert page.

*Check out this article for the study’s conclusions in a less academic manner.

Are you worried about sex toys taking over your sex life?

“Faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive” – today’s sex toys might not be able to save Lois Lane from freak accidents but it can sure match Superman’s strength and speed. The joy of using vibrators, butt plugs, and dildos has evolved into a favorite American pastime in the last couple of decades, everybody and their mother has a little buzz buddy tucked away inside their nightstand. 

But is there such a thing as “liking sex toys a little too much?” We’ve received concerned messages from wives whose husbands seem to enjoy anal toys more than the real thing. Although this is not the intended result, it is understandable why these toys might greatly stimulate and excite a man’s rear region. As we’ve mentioned in our Pegging blog, the anal canal is rich with nerve endings, and the linings of the male prostate is extremely sensitive and pleasurable to the touch. With a little lube and a beginner’s butt plug, you can take your man to p-spot paradise in no time at all. 

Nevertheless, you shouldn’t let anal sex toys dominate the bedroom. If you’ve been exclusively using anal toys for some time and you want to “get back to tradition”, try keeping a butt plug inside of him during intercourse. This allows him to continue enjoying anal stimulation while his frontal member is also getting plenty of action, resulting in powerful sensations on both ends. Another way to “double the fun” is to place yourself in a ideal position in which you can give him mind-blowing oral while simultaneously rub his rectum. For those who are a little bit more adventurous, use a douche/enema system to get him squeaky clean and give him an amazing rim job while stimulating his genitals with your hands.  

These exercises might re-condition his expectations of sensation and pleasure during anal play, thus re-shifting attention and desire back to you without him having to give up his backdoor fun. Remember, it’s not necessarily the toys themselves that he loves but rather the incredible sensations derived from using them. You, with your hands and mouth, can also give him the exact same sensations, if not better! 

Ask him what he likes, talk about it in a fun way and explore together. Communication is the best medicine for any relationship!

For more information about anal play or anal toys, email us at info@pipedreamproducts.com

FAQ: Rabbit Pearl Strap-On

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Our Fetish Fantasy Series Rabbit Pearl Strap-On is a great way to make strap on play more interesting. It has all the features you love about a rabbit style vibrator, but with a harness so that you can using during intercourse and pegging.

We offer this video to answer many of the frequently asked questions about this item such as how the remote functions, is the suction cup base functional, what waist size does it fit, what type of batteries and of course how do you get that large suction cup base in the smaller hole on the harness.

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Strap-ons For Men With Wider Core

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Strap-ons used to have a reputation as a lesbian’s sex-toy. In recent years we have seen strap-on popularity rise in other groups, including men with erectile dysfunction, and even christian couples.

Men who use strap-ons due to erectile dysfunction have written us requesting a few changes be made to some of our most popular hollow strap-ons. They want the same rigid, stiff dong performance with a wider core to fit their penis in easier. Read more